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Debunking the Homeschool Myth: I’m Not Qualified To Teach My Children

April 16, 2019 by Pat Cobb Leave a Comment

And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. ~ Deuteronomy 6:6-7

One of the biggest and most discouraging myths concerning homeschooling is that parents are not qualified to teach their children.  According to educational guru’s, you must be a graduate from a university and you must be certified by the state to teach children.

And that my friends is just that, A MYTH!

First of all, in my experience as the director of a homeschool co-op, I worked with parents from various backgrounds.  Some were certified teachers, many had bachelor’s degrees in areas other than education,  and  then there was this group of brave mamas who had some college or simply a high school education.

The certified teachers were all great teachers, but tended to teach like a teacher in a traditional classroom.  In other words, they taught to the group and not the individual.  And when you homeschool, you teach to the individual and not necessarily to the group.  When I first began homeschooling, I did the same thing. Even though I was teaching only my child,  I tried to teach her like I was teaching a group.   Through trial and error, I broke out of the mold and began to teach her individually.  And when that happened, my daughter flourished.

The teachers with bachelor’s degrees were also great teachers.  They were experts in their particular field and were not tied down by the traditional methods that go along with teaching in a classroom. And the excellent teachers taught from their hearts.

And then there was the third group, the teacher’s with not as much education.  And those brave teachers were true gems.  They had such a heart for the kids and that love carried them far and in some cases above the teachers who had more education.  They also worked a little bit harder.  I think they felt like they may have had a little bit more to prove.

As I worked on my teacher certification, I found the majority of my classes were theoretical in nature and while they were worthwhile, it was my teaching experience and the ability to work with children  that made me a successful teacher, not taking teacher certification classes.

All  teachers, including homeschooling parents, must be familiar with the subject matter they. When I homeschooled, I read ahead and studied the material just as any good teacher would.  I did hit a road block with Algebra and Biology.  I’m not a math person and simply did not feel that it was in my child’s best interest to continue teaching math and I did not want to dissect animals in my home.  As a result, I joined our local homeschool co-op where  a math teacher was hired and a parent with a science background taught the high school science classes.  My daughter finished her English credits taking a dual credit classes at our local community college and I finished up her history.

Today’s homeschooler is now an educational director for her child. With the abundance of traditional curriculum, online programs, parent driven co-operative classes, outside classes taught by learning specialists, and even dual credit classes where high school students can receive both high school and college credit simultaneously,  parents can pick and choose the educational program that best fits their child.

The choices are endless for the parent who want to homeschool in the traditional manner.

  • Some choose to teach all the subjects at home.
  • Others trade off with their friends.  One friend might teach science while the other parent teaches history.
  • Numerous families opt for online classes where the child works independently.  The parent assigns work and makes sure  their child stays on task while the online academy grades the work and keeps up with the transcripts.
  • Another option, especially for parents with older children is to farm out some or all of the courses to co-ops or other classes taught by learning specialists where you can choose which classes you would like someone else to teach.
  • And probably the best deal of all is dual credit where your child receives college credit while taking homeschool credit.

“Education is what remains after one has forgotten what one has learned in school”.  ~ Albert Einstein

As you can see, today’s homeschool parent is definitely qualified to homeschool.  All you need is the desire, willpower and to be BRAVE!

BraveMama, remember that “God doesn’t call the qualified, he qualifies the called.”  1 Corinthians 1:27-29

What method do you plan to use to homeschool your children?  Let me know.

If you need prayer, please message me.  I’d love to agree with you in prayer.

Did you know that I wrote a free homeschooling resource entitled 7 Scripture Prayers To Pray Over Your Homeschool.  To receive a copy, scroll down and click on the updates link.

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Got Gratitude?

November 4, 2019 by Pat Cobb Leave a Comment

Gratitude is one of those emotions that you either have or you don’t.  It is defined as

” warmly or deeply appreciative of kindness or benefits received; thankful”

I always try to have a grateful heart.  My day goes better if I can find the good in all things;  if I see the glass as half full instead of half empty, and yet…  I have those days when I have a hard time.

One of the things I’ve noticed is that when I don’t compare myself with others, I have an easier time being thankful.  And when I do compare myself with someone else, I tend to lose my way.  As Teddy Roosevelt was simply stated,

“Comparison is the thief of joy!”

Someone always has more.  They may be smarter, have a nicer house, kids who behave better than mine, appear to have more money, drive a nicer car, be thinner, have less wrinkles, appear to have a better marriage, be married, be single and carefree, and the list goes on and on.

Some people may even appear to have a better relationship with God than me.  They just seem to have it all together while I’m struggling.

With that being said, the Bible tells us in Galatians 6:4 that

“each one should test their own actions.  Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.

In other words, stay in your own lane and worry about your own actions, your own life.  Keep your eyes on yourself.  

I have noticed that one of the nasty byproducts of comparison is envy, one of the acts of the flesh as found in Galatians 5: 19-21

“…21 and envy;

According to dictionary.com, envy is defined as,

a feeling of discontent or covetousness with regard to another’s advantages, success, possessions, etc.

Envy is sneaky.  You may be happy for someone who seems to have it all, you just want it also, where as, jealousy is when you don’t want the other person to be happy.   Ouch, that hurt!  But #BraveMama, I have dealt with this in my own life and I  found that when I took this to God and asked God to forgive me and help me, it gave me emotional freedom.  

Helping others is another way practice that helps develop a heart of gratitude.  Just as someone always has more than me, another person has less.  When I concentrate on others, it helps me to keep my eyes off of my problems.  #BraveMama, if you are going through a difficult season, try helping someone else whether it be helping with a task, volunteering, bringing someone a meal, praying for others, or just smiling at the clerk at the checkout at the grocery store.

I find that when I consciously think about being grateful it helps keep my mind focused on my blessings and not on my troubles. When I write down the things I’m grateful for, I find that it helps me to have a grateful spirit.  When I get busy and don’t, the negative things in life tend to crowd in and I tend to lose my ability to be grateful.  I do suggest getting a journal/notebook and keeping a record so that you can go back and remember all the blessings in your life, but you can simply write them down on a sheet of paper or even a napkin.  And there is something about writing things down;  you tend to remember it.

Zig Ziglar so beautifully states that

“Gratitude is the healthiest of all human emotions. The more you express gratitude for what you have, the more likely you will have even more to express gratitude for.”

#BraveMama, make an effort to express gratitude in the small things and before you know it, you will have a grateful heart. 

 

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